Given at the Lynnville (IL) UMC on August 10, 2003! The Scripture is from Ephesians 4:25 – 5:2…
Have you ever had a deadline sneak up on you and suddenly realize that you are about out of time to do whatever it was you were supposed to do? During most of 1971, the year that I graduated high school, Dad and I lived by ourselves on our small farm outside of Edwardsville. As a rule, he went to work at the steel mill each day and I would take care of whatever chores needed to be done around the house and/or farm, as well as whatever hours I would work for the neighbor. Generally, he worked the day shift, but every so many weeks he would have to go in for a series of midnight and 4-12 shifts. And it was during one of these 4-12 shifts that this story occurred.
Being a teenager and fresh out of high school, there never seemed to be enough time to take care of all of those things teenagers always seem to think they need to do. I usually managed to take care of everything, but it wasn’t always easy! On this particular day, Dad had done the laundry before going to work and hung it outside on the line. Among other things, I had been given strict instructions to take it down and bring it in when it was dry. I had dutifully taken care of most of the things on my list, but shortly after he left for work, sometime around three, something came up and since the clothes weren’t dry yet, anyway, I left in my Fairlane to see one of my friends.
You can probably guess part of where this is going!
Yes, one thing led to another and midnight found me headed home from halfway across the county when I suddenly remembered the clothes still hanging on the line… and Dad would be home in about forty minutes! Now, you have to remember that many of the oil roads down there are similar to the one south of the ‘old brick school house’… full of curves and hills and hollers. But that Fairlane and I knew them well. Since it was night, I knew I could see the headlights of any other traffic well before I came upon them, but that night there was nothing. So off we went, curling and twisting around the corners and curves as we carved a path through the air that must have been slamming shut behind us with a huge ‘boom’, though I was well ahead of it!
Finally, I came to the longest straight stretch in that neck of the country… 5 or 6 miles with barely a curve. It was up-and-down and narrow, but I knew it like the back of my hand and put the pedal to the floor. That little Fairlane had a top speed of ninety-three miles-per-hour, and that’s what we were doing whenever the tires were on the ground… but occasionally, as we topped a rise, that became my air-speed!
Flying through the night, I was calculating that I should be home in plenty of time to get the clothes in before Dad got there when I topped a hill at ninety-plus and saw a set of barricades dead ahead! Locking up the brakes, I went into a four-wheel skid. With all four wheels locked, it was shear luck (or the Grace of God!) that I stayed on the road. I spun 180 degrees and stopped with my rear bumper two feet away from a barricade with a sign that read, “ROAD CLOSED – BRIDGE OUT!”
By reflex, I had also pushed in the clutch pedal, and as I took stock of what had happened and that everything was alright, I revved the engine, let out the clutch, and took off flying down an alternate route! I still got home, had the clothes in the basket and was sitting in front of the TV when Dad walked in. The only problem was that the dew had settled on the clothes during the night and they were all wet, again!
In today’s verses, Paul is instructing the Ephesians in what, to us, may seem like some ‘well, duh!’ kind of things. “If you are a thief, stop stealing.” Well, DUH! “Put away all falsehood and tell your neighbor the truth.” Well, DUH! “Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of malicious behavior.” Well, duh, duh, duh, duh, and duh! And to top it all off, he gives us a deadline to deal with… “…don’t sin by letting anger gain control over you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a mighty foothold to the Devil.” Just why is he saying all of these things to these people, and what does any of it have to do with us?
In Barnes’ Notes we read, “It may seem strange that the apostle should seriously exhort Christians to put away “lying,” implying that they were in the habit of indulging in falsehood. But we are to remember that the Ephesians had been recently converted, and were, to a great extent, ignorant of the requirements of the gospel. A conscience has to be “created” when pagans are converted.
Also, the effects of former habits often abide long after a man is converted. He who has been in the habit of profane swearing finds it difficult to avoid it; and he who has been all his life practicing deception, will find himself tempted to practice it still. It was for reasons such as these, probably, that the apostle exhorted the Ephesians to put away “lying,” and to speak only the truth. Nor is the exhortation inappropriate to some Christians today…
(1) He who is in the habit of concealing the defects of an article in trade, or of commending it for more than its real value – “let him put away lying.”
(2) He, or she, who instructs a servant to say that they are not at home, when they are at home: or that they are sick, when they are not sick or that they are engaged, when they are not engaged – “let them put away lying.”
(3) He who takes no pains to ascertain the exact truth in regard to any facts or rumors that may affect his neighbor, though they may seriously affect the character and peace of another – “let him put away lying.”
(4) He that is in the habit of making promises only to disregard them – “let him put away lying.”
Nothing is more important in a community than simple “truth” – and yet, it is to be feared that nothing is more habitually disregarded. No professing Christian can do any good who has not an unimpeachable character for integrity and truth-and yet who can lay his hand on his breast and say before God that he is in all cases a man that speaks the simple and unvarnished TRUTH?”
Let me read that again… “No professing Christian can do any good who has not an unimpeachable character for integrity and truth.” Which one of us here this morning has an ‘Unimpeachable character’? And yet in the 2nd chapter of 1 Peter, verses 21 & 22, we are told that, “To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
“He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.”
Look around us! Church leaders debate accepting homosexuality… others point fingers and condemn them, while, at the same time, trying to cover-up their own scandals of sexual abuse and misconduct. These are the very people who are supposed to have studied God’s word… who are supposed to hear and follow His commands! And yet we find them embroiled in as much controversy as any of the priests and Pharisee’s of Jesus’ time on earth. Is it any wonder that many in the world today tend to hold Christians in contempt?
As Christians, we have an obligation to set an example for the world to see. In other words, the world sees Christ through us! And if your neighbor or your co-worker is seeing Christ through you… what is he seeing?
Each of the things that Paul mentions in these verses should be ‘Well, duh!’ kind of things. Yet we are all guilty of them! Listen to them again! Do not lie! Don’t let anger control you! Don’t steal! Don’t cuss or use abusive language! Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander! Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. You know that Jesus did right in all of these things. And if others are to see Jesus in us, then we must be living by the same standards!
The Life Application Commentary notes that Paul gives us another surprising reason for choosing right over the wrong… so that we don’t grieve the Holy Spirit — not just so that we don’t hurt one another, but also so that we do not sadden God the Spirit. G. Campbell Morgan once asked, “How would you like to live with somebody who was everlastingly grieving your heart by his conduct?” What a powerful incentive that should be for us to do what is right and avoid what is evil! What a privilege and responsibility to know that our actions have that kind of effect on God.
Paul told the Ephesians … and through them, us… to ‘follow God’s example in everything they do… to live a life filled with love for others, following the example of Christ, who loved us and gave himself as a sacrifice to take away our sins.’
Are we living our lives in Christ’s image? When others look at us do they see the purity and innocence of God’s Son? Or do they see the image of the world beaming back at them? Because, if all they see in you is an image of themselves in the world… who can blame them for believing that Christianity must be false?
Now, about that deadline… Paul also told them to not let the sun go down on their anger. I put it do you that we should not let the sun go down on any of these sins! But I put it to you further that we should not let another MOMENT go by before acknowledging them and asking God for forgiveness. First of all, one can never be sure wither evening comes! But even disregarding that, the sooner we get ourselves straight with God, the sooner others will come to see the true image of Christ in us! The sooner we get ourselves straight with God, the sooner we can let ourselves concentrate on doing His work… helping those in need and spreading the Good News! The sooner we get ourselves straight with God, the more time we will all have to fully enjoy all of the blessings this life has to offer through His name!